Comments for MyRelationshipRX.com http://myrelationshiprx.com Real Relationship Advice for Real Women Tue, 10 Jan 2012 06:36:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Emotional Infidelity – How Do I End My Emotional Affair? | Save Marriage Secrets http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-243 Emotional Infidelity – How Do I End My Emotional Affair? | Save Marriage Secrets Tue, 10 Jan 2012 06:36:15 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-243 [...] Over an Emotional AffairTolstoy’s Emotional AffairAn Affair Is An Emotional AffairSurviving Infidelity - Relationship Tips for Women .social_button { float:left; width:130px; display:inline-block; [...] [...] Over an Emotional AffairTolstoy’s Emotional AffairAn Affair Is An Emotional AffairSurviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women .social_button { float:left; width:130px; display:inline-block; [...]

]]> Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Relationship Tips and Advice for Women http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-215 Relationship Tips and Advice for Women Thu, 22 Dec 2011 12:07:39 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-215 I agree with you christine that social media made it convenient for people to cheat not only their life partner but also his/her friend with whom they chat. I agree with you christine that social media made it convenient for people to cheat not only their life partner but also his/her friend with whom they chat.

]]> Comment on Chasing Him – a Relationship Timeline by Rori Raye by Sherri http://myrelationshiprx.com/36/chasing-him-a-relationship-timeline-by-rori-raye/#comment-214 Sherri Tue, 20 Dec 2011 21:01:27 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=36#comment-214 He's a young 77 and widowed. I'm 59 and widowed. He asked me out, I accepted, he calls about every 3-4 days. Now he doesn't want to get "serious". I refuse to call him. Should I? He’s a young 77 and widowed. I’m 59 and widowed. He asked me out, I accepted, he calls about every 3-4 days. Now he doesn’t want to get “serious”. I refuse to call him. Should I?

]]> Comment on Chasing Him – a Relationship Timeline by Rori Raye by Kay http://myrelationshiprx.com/36/chasing-him-a-relationship-timeline-by-rori-raye/#comment-211 Kay Wed, 07 Dec 2011 03:57:13 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=36#comment-211 I am going through this RIGHT NOW. I have been seeing this same man for about a year. We have a very strong bond to one another. He has pulled away at times and blamed it on me wanting to become to serious, and when the truth comes out it's really about him pulling away because he feels himself getting to attached. I have fallen in love with him. I have continued to do my own thing and "do me" as they say and date here and there, he has been completely cut out of my life and yet he still finds his way back and tells me he misses me and "looks for me". When I tell him I don't want him to worry about making me happy because he is going through to much, he tells me "shouldn't that be my choice." Still no commitment is offered. I want him to tell me I am the one he wants, his family has told him that they think I am "the one" for him. I read TOO MUCH into things that are technically small and putting power into the things he says and does, making it into be something about it being a "big step for him". I am this woman in this article. The funny thing is, that I am like this with NO OTHER MAN. I have dated some great guys, just also the wrong shoe size and I don't get attached and they chase me...but this one, this one man has a hold on my heart. Our chemistry is amazing, but then I feel HORRIBLE about myself most of the time, disgusted with myself as if I ate a whole chocolate cake in one sitting. Meeting him further than he meets me, it's not a feminine feeling...but when I back off, he comes forward and says that he "tried to step up to the plate." But he didn't actually DO anything. I don't know what to do, but just lay it out and say I can't do it anymore, not with him. I am going through this RIGHT NOW. I have been seeing this same man for about a year. We have a very strong bond to one another. He has pulled away at times and blamed it on me wanting to become to serious, and when the truth comes out it’s really about him pulling away because he feels himself getting to attached. I have fallen in love with him. I have continued to do my own thing and “do me” as they say and date here and there, he has been completely cut out of my life and yet he still finds his way back and tells me he misses me and “looks for me”. When I tell him I don’t want him to worry about making me happy because he is going through to much, he tells me “shouldn’t that be my choice.” Still no commitment is offered. I want him to tell me I am the one he wants, his family has told him that they think I am “the one” for him. I read TOO MUCH into things that are technically small and putting power into the things he says and does, making it into be something about it being a “big step for him”. I am this woman in this article. The funny thing is, that I am like this with NO OTHER MAN. I have dated some great guys, just also the wrong shoe size and I don’t get attached and they chase me…but this one, this one man has a hold on my heart. Our chemistry is amazing, but then I feel HORRIBLE about myself most of the time, disgusted with myself as if I ate a whole chocolate cake in one sitting. Meeting him further than he meets me, it’s not a feminine feeling…but when I back off, he comes forward and says that he “tried to step up to the plate.” But he didn’t actually DO anything. I don’t know what to do, but just lay it out and say I can’t do it anymore, not with him.

]]> Comment on Advice on How To Have The Relationship You Want – Relationship Tips for Women by Rori Raye by Bojan Arsenovic http://myrelationshiprx.com/40/advice-on-how-to-have-the-relationship-you-want-relationship-tips-for-women-by-rori-raye/#comment-198 Bojan Arsenovic Tue, 15 Nov 2011 23:50:29 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=40#comment-198 Yeah this is one of those tough spots. Do you wait for him to come around... or do you move on. But if you wait too long and then nothing happens you just wasted time. On the other hand if you move on and later find out that if you only waited a bit things could have been better, it would always bother you. So what to do? I believe that proper communication is key. Also honesty is important, because communicating lies gets you nowhere. He has to be honest with himself, you have to be honest with yourself. Discuss the issues, see if things can be worked out, compromises made. Of course nothing good comes without some kind of sacrifice, from either you or him. If you love the guy, and he's giving you hope, stick around. If you are starting to love him but he's hopeless, run!! If he loves you but isn't ready for big commitment, find out how much he loves you so you know where you stand. Also, do date around because sometimes you'll think you love this person but then you'll meet someone else that will make you feel the things you never felt before and you'd look back and feel silly. Opportunity cost! Yeah this is one of those tough spots. Do you wait for him to come around… or do you move on. But if you wait too long and then nothing happens you just wasted time. On the other hand if you move on and later find out that if you only waited a bit things could have been better, it would always bother you. So what to do?

I believe that proper communication is key. Also honesty is important, because communicating lies gets you nowhere. He has to be honest with himself, you have to be honest with yourself. Discuss the issues, see if things can be worked out, compromises made. Of course nothing good comes without some kind of sacrifice, from either you or him. If you love the guy, and he’s giving you hope, stick around. If you are starting to love him but he’s hopeless, run!! If he loves you but isn’t ready for big commitment, find out how much he loves you so you know where you stand. Also, do date around because sometimes you’ll think you love this person but then you’ll meet someone else that will make you feel the things you never felt before and you’d look back and feel silly. Opportunity cost!

]]> Comment on Advice on How To Have The Relationship You Want – Relationship Tips for Women by Rori Raye by James http://myrelationshiprx.com/40/advice-on-how-to-have-the-relationship-you-want-relationship-tips-for-women-by-rori-raye/#comment-197 James Mon, 14 Nov 2011 22:05:27 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=40#comment-197 From what I have read, the three most common reasons for emotional withdrawal are: he has lost interest; he feels rushed; he is afraid; I am no expert, certainly not like the author, but to me, it seems that of these three possible causes, the best scenario (reason) for a female or anyone else going through this type of problem is his being afraid. That is because this is the cause that can most easily be dealt with. You need only have an open, candid discussion, without judgment or emotional shots fired. Once he is coaxed into revealing his fear(s), you can then compromise if needed and offer words to reassure him, even if that requires your continued patience. But by the same token, I understand if a female might be getting a bit anxious because they have been in a committed relationship for a long period of time and he still has not indicated any interest in a stronger commitment. In such a scenario, a person can't just continue waiting forever. From what I have read, the three most common reasons for emotional withdrawal are: he has lost interest; he feels rushed; he is afraid; I am no expert, certainly not like the author, but to me, it seems that of these three possible causes, the best scenario (reason) for a female or anyone else going through this type of problem is his being afraid. That is because this is the cause that can most easily be dealt with. You need only have an open, candid discussion, without judgment or emotional shots fired. Once he is coaxed into revealing his fear(s), you can then compromise if needed and offer words to reassure him, even if that requires your continued patience. But by the same token, I understand if a female might be getting a bit anxious because they have been in a committed relationship for a long period of time and he still has not indicated any interest in a stronger commitment. In such a scenario, a person can’t just continue waiting forever.

]]> Comment on Advice on How To Have The Relationship You Want – Relationship Tips for Women by Rori Raye by Shanda http://myrelationshiprx.com/40/advice-on-how-to-have-the-relationship-you-want-relationship-tips-for-women-by-rori-raye/#comment-196 Shanda Mon, 14 Nov 2011 01:05:28 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=40#comment-196 Like Rori says you need to get yourself out In the world of dating again when something like this happens and if you don't feel like going out and doing it the hard way or old fashioned way because of the level of rejection you feel when you go out and not one guy try's to hit on you. Try some of those mature dating sites, I say mature because these are the people looking for a relationship not just a fun time with a friend. Don't give up though no matter what, don't give up. Like Rori says you need to get yourself out In the world of dating again when something like this happens and if you don’t feel like going out and doing it the hard way or old fashioned way because of the level of rejection you feel when you go out and not one guy try’s to hit on you. Try some of those mature dating sites, I say mature because these are the people looking for a relationship not just a fun time with a friend. Don’t give up though no matter what, don’t give up.

]]> Comment on Advice on How To Have The Relationship You Want – Relationship Tips for Women by Rori Raye by Margaret http://myrelationshiprx.com/40/advice-on-how-to-have-the-relationship-you-want-relationship-tips-for-women-by-rori-raye/#comment-194 Margaret Sat, 12 Nov 2011 23:05:32 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=40#comment-194 A friend of mine who works as an advocate for family and children services told that she deals with divorces and custody issues and sometimes has to double as a marriage counselor. She said that some men model after fathers who had an inability to trust caused by the trauma of their parent's divorce or by a parent's controlling or angry behaviors. She also said some spouses give freely of themselves during the early years of their marriage, but then, under the influence of numerous types of stress, the emotional wounds of mistrust from childhood and adolescence emerge. This cause some to pull away or criticize in an unconscious attempt to protect themselves from further betrayal. But the most common reason, she said, is the toll that various hurts over the years of the marriage take. But I think that can go both ways because I've seen some women get fed up with injustices they've been enduring without voicing their feelings until one day the straw breaks the camel's back. A friend of mine who works as an advocate for family and children services told that she deals with divorces and custody issues and sometimes has to double as a marriage counselor. She said that some men model after fathers who had an inability to trust caused by the trauma of their parent’s divorce or by a parent’s controlling or angry behaviors. She also said some spouses give freely of themselves during the early years of their marriage, but then, under the influence of numerous types of stress, the emotional wounds of mistrust from childhood and adolescence emerge. This cause some to pull away or criticize in an unconscious attempt to protect themselves from further betrayal. But the most common reason, she said, is the toll that various hurts over the years of the marriage take. But I think that can go both ways because I’ve seen some women get fed up with injustices they’ve been enduring without voicing their feelings until one day the straw breaks the camel’s back.

]]> Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Mickey http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-192 Mickey Sat, 12 Nov 2011 01:50:30 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-192 I know that God did not create all men equal and he did not create all of them to be such pigs but I am having a hard time finding one that isn't. If it isn't other women it is pornography, drugs or gambling. I know that women have their faults as well, with them there are sometimes other men, drugs, alcohol, gambling and the need to spend money on shoes. But it always seems to be the men hurting the women with infidelity and I don't think they understand how this really effects the women they hurt. I'm sorry that you are going through this and I hope that you can get past this with out the permanent scaring that this sometimes leaves and the belief that all men are bad, I also hope this does not prevent you from continuing to look for that guy. I know that God did not create all men equal and he did not create all of them to be such pigs but I am having a hard time finding one that isn’t. If it isn’t other women it is pornography, drugs or gambling. I know that women have their faults as well, with them there are sometimes other men, drugs, alcohol, gambling and the need to spend money on shoes. But it always seems to be the men hurting the women with infidelity and I don’t think they understand how this really effects the women they hurt. I’m sorry that you are going through this and I hope that you can get past this with out the permanent scaring that this sometimes leaves and the belief that all men are bad, I also hope this does not prevent you from continuing to look for that guy.

]]> Comment on Advice on How To Have The Relationship You Want – Relationship Tips for Women by Rori Raye by Robert http://myrelationshiprx.com/40/advice-on-how-to-have-the-relationship-you-want-relationship-tips-for-women-by-rori-raye/#comment-193 Robert Sat, 12 Nov 2011 01:50:30 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=40#comment-193 So Damon, if a guy sometimes feels this way towards a woman why does he just withdrawal from the relationship? Why not tell the woman what is wrong instead of just pulling back from her and making her think that she did something wrong when it is him that doesn't want to commit or that has the issue? Men need to learn how to open their mouths and talk instead of getting in a relationship they aren't serious about and hurting someone all the time. So Damon, if a guy sometimes feels this way towards a woman why does he just withdrawal from the relationship? Why not tell the woman what is wrong instead of just pulling back from her and making her think that she did something wrong when it is him that doesn’t want to commit or that has the issue? Men need to learn how to open their mouths and talk instead of getting in a relationship they aren’t serious about and hurting someone all the time.

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