Comments for MyRelationshipRX.com http://myrelationshiprx.com Real Relationship Advice for Real Women Tue, 15 May 2012 13:24:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on Circular Dating – a Rori Raye Relationship Tool by Robert http://myrelationshiprx.com/59/circular-dating-a-rori-raye-relationship-tool/#comment-262 Robert Tue, 15 May 2012 13:24:40 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=59#comment-262 Relationships are difficult, I was a lucky one that met my husband in high school and we have been together ever sense. I do not envy the women who are trying to find that relationship now and the things they think they have to do to find it. Circular dating sounds like an interesting concept but there are so many men willing to hurt you out there that it is a little scary as well. Relationships are difficult, I was a lucky one that met my husband in high school and we have been together ever sense. I do not envy the women who are trying to find that relationship now and the things they think they have to do to find it. Circular dating sounds like an interesting concept but there are so many men willing to hurt you out there that it is a little scary as well.

]]> Comment on Circular Dating – a Rori Raye Relationship Tool by James http://myrelationshiprx.com/59/circular-dating-a-rori-raye-relationship-tool/#comment-261 James Tue, 15 May 2012 06:47:20 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=59#comment-261 I recently subscribed to a membership for match.com and after corresponding with many persons, I can say with certainty that there is a lot of circular dating' that goes on between many of the members on that site. Most of the people on there are looking for a serious relationship and many of the women go on dates and take their time cultivating friendships without becoming sexually involved. There are players on there, too, as with any dating site. I recently subscribed to a membership for match.com and after corresponding with many persons, I can say with certainty that there is a lot of circular dating’ that goes on between many of the members on that site. Most of the people on there are looking for a serious relationship and many of the women go on dates and take their time cultivating friendships without becoming sexually involved. There are players on there, too, as with any dating site.

]]> Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Rhymiaz2 http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-260 Rhymiaz2 Thu, 10 May 2012 10:04:27 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-260 <strong>Rhymiaz2...</strong> Wonderful blog post, saw on... Rhymiaz2…

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]]> Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Auth http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-259 Auth Sat, 05 May 2012 02:48:54 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-259 I hate the word acceptance.At preesnt I hold to the fact to face the infidelity mess one should not hide from it in order to heal,decide whatto do and move on with life.I choose the word acknowledge that someone you had trusted with every piece of your being can be so selfish Acceptance leaves me feeling like I have to do something with my pain for the betrayer,if I choose to treat him like a human I've done more than he's done for me so far.Infidelity is the most savage,self centered,barbaric form of relationship rape one can inflict on another.I sincerely feel the betrayer doesn't love themself,needs to explore why they let go of their integrity,get unstuck from adolescence and grow or admeit to their spouse they are so stuck and give their spouse their first chance i a long time to have a say in what path the marriage should take..the choice that was taken from them when the betrayer took the marriage single handedly into their own hands.Way too much emphasis is placed on the role of the betrayed..why because they stayed committed in their relationship and vows? They are further responsible to continue to give? Society places way too much emphasis on the women and what they are responsible for and how they have to keep fixing what the little boys in the world muck up.The names associated with the women that partake in the affairs are condescending and dirty..the men are viewed as misunderstood.It is time to place an equal amount of responsibility on he men of the world and be held to a higher level..in other countries they stone the women..and the men get a pat on the back in most of the other countries.It may take 2 to create a bad marriage..but since 2 people are in the marriage why does one become so hopeless,unhappy..I say lack if character and self esteem..that is work that needs to come from the betrayer..not to allow them to keep running from REALLY getting in touch with themselves and their feelings and stop running and turn around and take honest notice of the beautiful person you wronged and stand up and remorsefully, in detail APOLOGIZE.How can they love someone..really,truly love someone if they really spend their time running from themselves and never fuly love themselves For some reason God gives us these projects..maybe we are stronger and can show the lost person we married the way Peace to all of us involved.Here's to a society where ethics, morals really mean something and your word is your bible.My heart continues to be on my sleeve for the man I never ,ever thought would do such a horrible thing..Still hangin in there..remembering a time when our love was pure for each other I hate the word acceptance.At preesnt I hold to the fact to face the infidelity mess one should not hide from it in order to heal,decide whatto do and move on with life.I choose the word acknowledge that someone you had trusted with every piece of your being can be so selfish Acceptance leaves me feeling like I have to do something with my pain for the betrayer,if I choose to treat him like a human I’ve done more than he’s done for me so far.Infidelity is the most savage,self centered,barbaric form of relationship rape one can inflict on another.I sincerely feel the betrayer doesn’t love themself,needs to explore why they let go of their integrity,get unstuck from adolescence and grow or admeit to their spouse they are so stuck and give their spouse their first chance i a long time to have a say in what path the marriage should take..the choice that was taken from them when the betrayer took the marriage single handedly into their own hands.Way too much emphasis is placed on the role of the betrayed..why because they stayed committed in their relationship and vows? They are further responsible to continue to give? Society places way too much emphasis on the women and what they are responsible for and how they have to keep fixing what the little boys in the world muck up.The names associated with the women that partake in the affairs are condescending and dirty..the men are viewed as misunderstood.It is time to place an equal amount of responsibility on he men of the world and be held to a higher level..in other countries they stone the women..and the men get a pat on the back in most of the other countries.It may take 2 to create a bad marriage..but since 2 people are in the marriage why does one become so hopeless,unhappy..I say lack if character and self esteem..that is work that needs to come from the betrayer..not to allow them to keep running from REALLY getting in touch with themselves and their feelings and stop running and turn around and take honest notice of the beautiful person you wronged and stand up and remorsefully, in detail APOLOGIZE.How can they love someone..really,truly love someone if they really spend their time running from themselves and never fuly love themselves For some reason God gives us these projects..maybe we are stronger and can show the lost person we married the way Peace to all of us involved.Here’s to a society where ethics, morals really mean something and your word is your bible.My heart continues to be on my sleeve for the man I never ,ever thought would do such a horrible thing..Still hangin in there..remembering a time when our love was pure for each other

]]> Comment on Male Insecurity – Dealing With It Rori Raye Style by Armando http://myrelationshiprx.com/49/male-insecurity-dealing-with-it-rori-raye-style/#comment-257 Armando Sat, 05 May 2012 00:05:42 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=49#comment-257 Totally with you on the insecurity thing. I'm very sevitisne to the macho side of travel writing and blogging and sometimes fall prey to the notion that I should take my kids on an 18-month trip where we use no fossil fuels, read all of Shakespeare's plays, and remotely teach a second-grade class via our solar-powered laptop. Heck, I traveled for 13 months with a one-year-old, wrote a book about it, and was told by numerous New York editors that even though they liked my writing they didn't think it would sell because the travel I did wasn't exotic enough apparently conventional wisdom (or the marketing people at large publishing companies anyway) say that parents as a group only want to read about travel they wouldn't actually undertake themselves.But you know, what I come back to is how many people I've met IRL or online who've been inspired by travel bloggers to try traveling AT ALL with their children. I mean up the street, not round the world. You've got me thinking about how to write honestly about the last trip we just took (three days in PA). It was fun, but also kind of stressful and crabby and expensive. I'm glad we went (and so are the kids) but I didn't write about it from the road as I intended because the trip itself just knocked me out. And it wasn't complicated or exotic. I think that traveling with kids presents a set of challenges that can make it hard to always be blogging. I try to cut myself lots of slack about the times when I just don't get that post written. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I try to focus on the posts I *do* write and the trips I *do* take. The stuff that doesn't get written, the trips I don't get to go on? Well, they don't exist and the world still keeps revolving.Carolina, your blog is beautiful, your writing is terrific, and I like reading about the things you do with your son whenever and wherever they happen. Totally with you on the insecurity thing. I’m very sevitisne to the macho side of travel writing and blogging and sometimes fall prey to the notion that I should take my kids on an 18-month trip where we use no fossil fuels, read all of Shakespeare’s plays, and remotely teach a second-grade class via our solar-powered laptop. Heck, I traveled for 13 months with a one-year-old, wrote a book about it, and was told by numerous New York editors that even though they liked my writing they didn’t think it would sell because the travel I did wasn’t exotic enough apparently conventional wisdom (or the marketing people at large publishing companies anyway) say that parents as a group only want to read about travel they wouldn’t actually undertake themselves.But you know, what I come back to is how many people I’ve met IRL or online who’ve been inspired by travel bloggers to try traveling AT ALL with their children. I mean up the street, not round the world. You’ve got me thinking about how to write honestly about the last trip we just took (three days in PA). It was fun, but also kind of stressful and crabby and expensive. I’m glad we went (and so are the kids) but I didn’t write about it from the road as I intended because the trip itself just knocked me out. And it wasn’t complicated or exotic. I think that traveling with kids presents a set of challenges that can make it hard to always be blogging. I try to cut myself lots of slack about the times when I just don’t get that post written. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I try to focus on the posts I *do* write and the trips I *do* take. The stuff that doesn’t get written, the trips I don’t get to go on? Well, they don’t exist and the world still keeps revolving.Carolina, your blog is beautiful, your writing is terrific, and I like reading about the things you do with your son whenever and wherever they happen.

]]> Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Koulotioloma http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-256 Koulotioloma Fri, 04 May 2012 15:32:23 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-256 ? They may be in the same frame of mind as when they did the crime only caring about tesemelvhs, dramatizing some crazy scene in their imaginations, completely outside rational thought. And if you spill your guts to them you will feel cheapened and ripped off and victimized all over again. And they'll get another chance to enjoy having stabbed you in the heart, figuratively, I hope. Then you dredge up some over propitiative emotional catharsis and say it's forgiveness.What? You don't need them to be there for that. Forgiveness happens later, after you've come to understand why people do crazy things and why you were there to be the target of some of it. You look back and realize, oh yeah, I've forgiven that one. Good. Well, I haven't forgiven that other one, and I don't have to and I never will. You may come to understand, but that's not the same thing. You or I don't owe anybody anything. Especially a criminal who was crazy to begin with and played me (or you) from the get-go to get at, say, our children. I don't need to forgive. That's between him and God, if He still wants him. My children will always bear the scars and as long as they do, he will not be forgiven by me. He wanted me to forgive him, as in, Let him off scott-free, but while at the time, being young and naive, I said I did, I know now that I didn't, I don't have to, and I won't. Not everyone deserves it. Where there have been no amends, no changes, no sincere efforts to correct an aberrated mind and restore some good to society that he took away from us and it no, forgiveness is a catch-word for quit talking to us about your problems and act happy, and it isn't anything anybody else can or should tell you to do. If you do, you do it. If you don't, that's ok too. These things take time. Don't try to force it or rush it, or let some emotional video try to twist you into some feeling that you're not ready for. Take your time, learn what life has to teach you and if it happpens, nice. But the Christian assumption that you must imitate a Jesus-like instant cheek-turning is just a hybrid of psycho-babble and hypocrisy. You didn't see Jesus forgiving the money-changers in the temple. No, he kicked over their tables and drove them out with violence. And he didn't waste any sentimental tears over forgiving them. Some things just don't ever need to be thought of again. And that's ok, too! Grow up! Quit snivelling in front of a criminal and acting wimpy. Respect yourself and their attitude will get right and the right things will follow. Sentiment and superstition make a bad combination. ? They may be in the same frame of mind as when they did the crime only caring about tesemelvhs, dramatizing some crazy scene in their imaginations, completely outside rational thought. And if you spill your guts to them you will feel cheapened and ripped off and victimized all over again. And they’ll get another chance to enjoy having stabbed you in the heart, figuratively, I hope. Then you dredge up some over propitiative emotional catharsis and say it’s forgiveness.What? You don’t need them to be there for that. Forgiveness happens later, after you’ve come to understand why people do crazy things and why you were there to be the target of some of it. You look back and realize, oh yeah, I’ve forgiven that one. Good. Well, I haven’t forgiven that other one, and I don’t have to and I never will. You may come to understand, but that’s not the same thing. You or I don’t owe anybody anything. Especially a criminal who was crazy to begin with and played me (or you) from the get-go to get at, say, our children. I don’t need to forgive. That’s between him and God, if He still wants him. My children will always bear the scars and as long as they do, he will not be forgiven by me. He wanted me to forgive him, as in, Let him off scott-free, but while at the time, being young and naive, I said I did, I know now that I didn’t, I don’t have to, and I won’t. Not everyone deserves it. Where there have been no amends, no changes, no sincere efforts to correct an aberrated mind and restore some good to society that he took away from us and it no, forgiveness is a catch-word for quit talking to us about your problems and act happy, and it isn’t anything anybody else can or should tell you to do. If you do, you do it. If you don’t, that’s ok too. These things take time. Don’t try to force it or rush it, or let some emotional video try to twist you into some feeling that you’re not ready for. Take your time, learn what life has to teach you and if it happpens, nice. But the Christian assumption that you must imitate a Jesus-like instant cheek-turning is just a hybrid of psycho-babble and hypocrisy. You didn’t see Jesus forgiving the money-changers in the temple. No, he kicked over their tables and drove them out with violence. And he didn’t waste any sentimental tears over forgiving them. Some things just don’t ever need to be thought of again. And that’s ok, too! Grow up! Quit snivelling in front of a criminal and acting wimpy. Respect yourself and their attitude will get right and the right things will follow. Sentiment and superstition make a bad combination.

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]]> Comment on Surviving Infidelity – Relationship Tips for Women by Relationship Tips and Advice for Women http://myrelationshiprx.com/46/surviving-infidelity-relationship-tips-for-women/#comment-215 Relationship Tips and Advice for Women Thu, 22 Dec 2011 12:07:39 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=46#comment-215 I agree with you christine that social media made it convenient for people to cheat not only their life partner but also his/her friend with whom they chat. I agree with you christine that social media made it convenient for people to cheat not only their life partner but also his/her friend with whom they chat.

]]> Comment on Chasing Him – a Relationship Timeline by Rori Raye by Sherri http://myrelationshiprx.com/36/chasing-him-a-relationship-timeline-by-rori-raye/#comment-214 Sherri Tue, 20 Dec 2011 21:01:27 +0000 http://myrelationshiprx.com/?p=36#comment-214 He's a young 77 and widowed. I'm 59 and widowed. He asked me out, I accepted, he calls about every 3-4 days. Now he doesn't want to get "serious". I refuse to call him. Should I? He’s a young 77 and widowed. I’m 59 and widowed. He asked me out, I accepted, he calls about every 3-4 days. Now he doesn’t want to get “serious”. I refuse to call him. Should I?

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